After you meet a girl you like, of course the most appropriate thing to do next is to take her out on a date. You must however be very careful and cautious about where you take this girl and how you treat her on a date. You know I’m going keep it real; ultimately, all us men would LOVE to hit on the first date. In fact, if we do hit on the first date it doesn’t necessarily mean we will think of you as a slut or a jump-off. It could just mean that we wined and dined you and showed you a good enough time that you feel as though we were worth giving it up to on the first night. Now, on the flip-side; if you have the tendency to ALWAYS give it up on the first date, then you may just be considered a jump-off.
So now we must think about what is both a good and appropriate FIRST date to take a girl out on. Do you take the traditional dinner and a movie route; or do you take her out bowling or even maybe to a skating rink. See the problem is now that some girls don’t want to be taken to just any restaurant; they want to go to higher scale restaurant because Applebee’s, Fridays, and red lobsters are just seen as regular ass spots nowadays. So now niggas gotta spend some more cash to take women out to more expensive spots just because they don’t want to be seen as a cheap ass nigga. So now you take her to a spot like, lets say the Cheesecake Factory and then to the movies. So we gonna do some math now: $70-$80+ for the meal (main course, some drinks, tip & a dessert of course), $30+ for gas, and $30+ for the movies. So a nigga just spent about $140 + for this first date and it’s a possibility that you don’t hit, she might be wack, or she may not even feel you and you have now OFFICIALLY took a loss for the night…SMH..And spent all that money for now reason.LOL..I guess you win some and lose some right.
What if you’re the type that doesn’t like going out and likes to just relax and stay in the crib. So you ask her to come to your crib and CHILL with you and watch movies and just have a laid back date. So now the first thing that goes through her mind is that “OH NO, this nigga must think he gonna get me over his crib and fuck on the first night”. Don’t get me a wrong, this is most definitely running through a niggas’s mind, if we have a chance to fuck we most definitely will, but it won’t be a forced issue.
Don’t get me wrong, when it comes to the whole dating world, I ain’t no CHEAP ass nigga, but at the same time I ain’t no DUMB ass nigga neither. I know how to wine dine and impress without going broke. No girl is gonna be tricking on me; but ladies do remember, “IT AIN’T TRICKING IF YOU GOT IT”, so if you can get a nigga to spend all types of money on you on a date; more power to you; just know it won’t be this nigga.lol
So just let me know what you think is both a good and PRODUCTIVE first date