Friday, January 23, 2009

Take YOU out on a DATE

After you meet a girl you like, of course the most appropriate thing to do next is to take her out on a date.  You must however be very careful and cautious about where you take this girl and how you treat her on a date.  You know I’m going keep it real; ultimately, all us men would LOVE to hit on the first date.  In fact, if we do hit on the first date it doesn’t necessarily mean we will think of you as a slut or a jump-off.  It could just mean that we wined and dined you and showed you a good enough time that you feel as though we were worth giving it up to on the first night.  Now, on the flip-side; if you have the tendency to ALWAYS give it up on the first date, then you may just be considered a jump-off.

 So now we must think about what is both a good and appropriate FIRST date to take a girl out on.  Do you take the traditional dinner and a movie route; or do you take her out bowling or even maybe to a skating rink.  See the problem is now that some girls don’t want to be taken to just any restaurant; they want to go to higher scale restaurant because Applebee’s, Fridays, and red lobsters are just seen as regular ass spots nowadays.  So now niggas gotta spend some more cash to take women out to more expensive spots just because they don’t want to be seen as a cheap ass nigga.  So now you take her to a spot like, lets say the Cheesecake Factory and then to the movies.  So we gonna do some math now: $70-$80+ for the meal (main course, some drinks, tip & a dessert of course), $30+ for gas, and $30+ for the movies.  So a nigga just spent about $140 + for this first date and it’s a possibility that you don’t hit, she might be wack, or she may not even feel you and you have now OFFICIALLY took a loss for the night…SMH..And spent all that money for now reason.LOL..I guess you win some and lose some right.


What if you’re the type that doesn’t like going out and likes to just relax and stay in the crib.  So you ask her to come to your crib and CHILL with you and watch movies and just have a laid back date.  So now the first thing that goes through her mind is that “OH NO, this nigga must think he gonna get me over his crib and fuck on the first night”.  Don’t get me a wrong, this is most definitely running through a niggas’s mind, if we have a chance to fuck we most definitely will, but it won’t be a forced issue.


Don’t get me wrong, when it comes to the whole dating world, I ain’t no CHEAP ass nigga, but at the same time I ain’t no DUMB ass nigga neither.  I know how to wine dine and impress without going broke.  No girl is gonna be tricking on me; but ladies do remember, “IT AIN’T TRICKING IF YOU GOT IT”, so if you can get a nigga to spend all types of money on you on a date; more power to you; just know it won’t be this


So just let me know what you think is both a good and PRODUCTIVE first date

Friday, January 16, 2009

Pump Fake

What makes a girl a jump?? Why are some girls considered a hoe and some are not? We are all grown and in a Real Man’s World, we all know everyone is sexing. Is that special number, your number of partners, the only key to consider if you a jump? This number states a lot about a person but just because it is up there doesn’t mean she a jump, but most cases she is. But this blog entry isn’t directed to the girls with the high ass numbers but the ones with a few notches on their belt. The chick with 3, 5, or 6 partners; shit somewhere around these lines.

My dudes, if a 21 year old girl only told you she had sex with 4 other people, would you a consider her a jump? Probably not. But what if she then told you she had 1 boyfriend since she was a junior in High School that lasted for about 4 years. And after she broke up with him over the past summer. And its now winter (only 3-4 months gone by) and her number has went from 1 to 4. That’s about a dude a month, and you have no idea if she was fucking them around the same time or not. Would you consider her a jump then?

Yea her ass may use the line, I’m just "EXPERIMENTING” and just trying see what I been missing but that doesn’t give her a reason to get took down by dudes like that. But then, you have to figure out who the dudes are. Maybe there not just random men, but her friends from back in the day, who she would have given a chance to if she wasn’t cuffed and staying loyal. Who knows? But at the end of the day she made a leap from 1 to 4 in about 3 months.

This is just a snippet to get your minds thinking about this topic. I will have more scenarios in the future and I want your opinion if she a jump or not.

But from what you’ve read, do you think this girl stayed on her feet, or fell for the pump fake n JUMPED…


Why do women want the Best of Both Worlds? Why do they want to have their cake and eat it to? I’ve already came to the conclusion that women don’t ever know what they really want and seem to can’t ever make up their mind on what kind of relationship they want with certain men. Since this is “A REAL MAN’S WORLD”, your gonna hear what I think about this permanent state of confusion women always seem to have.

It seems as though girls always have those male friends that they know like them and that constantly try to get at them but they don’t ever show the same type of affection back to them. The girl knows he’s a good guy, knows he will treat her right, is easy to talk to, and is even cute in her eyes; BUT for some reason she just doesn’t want him. It almost appears that the girl is flattered that there is a guy who likes them so much and is always there for them in their times of need. He is there for them when they are having family problems, personal problems, and despite the fact that he doesn’t want to hear about the other niggas that you talk to, he even listens to you talk about that and gives you advice about all your problems. It’s not like he doesn’t let you know he is feeling you, because he does; it’s the fact that a lot of girls take it for granted the GOOD MAN that wants to be their support system. So girls usually hit you with one of the lines like: “I see you like a brother” or “I feel like I can tell you anything, your such a good friend” or “ I don’t really see you that way” or “ You do you & I’ll do me” or even “ I can’t see myself talking to you like that right now, but I can see myself being with you in the future”. This is all shit NIGGAS DON’T WANNA HEAR, but out of respect for the girl, we say “I UNDERSTAND AND RESPECT YOUR DECISION”. So the girl starts talking to the next nigga and the guy FINALLY moves on from this girl who seems like his forbidden fruit and stops putting his love life on hold for a girl who doesn’t want him and he starts to try to get at a new girl. BUT WAIT, now he stops showing the girl so much attention because he’s working on something new and positive with this new girl. So you know what happens next right, the girl realizes that this guy who was always there for her is slowly fading away, so she uses the power she has to get him back because she still has that certain hold on him. She gives him hope that they will start talking because she doesn’t want another girl having him because she knows he built for the long run and it’s a possibility that he will be in a long-term relationship and give the next girl the treatment she’s suppose to be receiving from him. In the meanwhile though, she wants to continue to talk to other guys but doesn’t want him talking to another girl…she wants THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS. Women seem to want to go ahead and do them and fuck with these guys that they know are wrong for them, but at the same time have that safety valve in that guy they know will treat them right and that they have this unbreakable hold over. So what I am trying to say to women is: Don’t treat a guy like a yo-yo and bring him back everything you think he’s moving on, you can’t keep someone shelved or refrigerated and put them away and try to go back and get them when YOU are ready, and don’t give a guy a false hope that something will happen between ya’ll two because all he will end up doing is holding on and waiting. So ladies, if you have that guy friend who you know will treat you right, why wait on getting treated the way your suppose to be treated as a woman. Life is too short and nothing is guaranteed; it may be something tragic that happens, it may be something small, or he may just finally get fed up with you playing with his mind and move on. Trust me though, you don’t want to look back regretting anything and saying, “What If” or “I wish I would had talked to him”. SO DON’T PUT OFF THE THINGS YOU WANT TODAY UNTIL TOMORROW…signing out….

Sunday, January 11, 2009


What are the first two things you look at when you see the opposite sex? Why do you look at that those specific features and what does it mean to you? Are you shallow or wrong for having your preferences in the opposite sex? As I was talking to some of the women that I consider friends in my life, I asked them this question because I was curious to see what their answers were. The answers that I got were: Face, Arms, feet (sneaker apparel), hands, smile, and swag. My interpretation of these answers goes as the following: Women look at our arms because it gives them a sense of our overall built of our body; Our face because I guess they want us to be cute; I guess if we keep our kicks clean, it means that we stay fresh ; I think women look at our hands because that’s what were gonna use to touch their bodies with before we getting the stroking. I think women look at our smile because it number one lets them see our teeth and number two may make them feel comfortable with us. Lastly but not least, I think they pay attention to our swag because face it; no girl wants a WACK ass nigga. These are just my interpretations of what these answers I was given meant.

So what if your a laid back guy kinda like myself who wears sweats and hoodies and some regular throw around kicks most of the time; that means you already failed some of the criteria. In addition to that, each girl has her own definition of cute so I guess that’s another criteria thrown up in the air i guess...

Now I know you ain’t think I was just gonna let that rock without giving ya’ll the man’s side of what we look at when we see a female, because hey, after all it’s “A REAL MAN’S WORLD”. So when we see a female walking by, the things that us MEN look at include: The ass, face, titties, and feet. Let’s face it, what man doesn’t want a girl that got a fatty or at least some type of cushion back there, it just makes the sex that much more better when you hitting from the back. The titties usually depend on whether he is a breast man or not; but it ain’t nothing wrong with sucking on some titties during foreplay or even just because you may be bored. Another fun thing to do with the titties is to motor boat them, for those who know what that is, for those who don’t it’s when you put your face between the titties and move rapidly from side to side. Don’t worry the face is also important, but it isn’t something mandatory to look at when we fucking. Don’t get me wrong though, the face is essential if you EVER have a chance of being wifey because guys need a girl that they can take out in public and not be embarrassed or take to a lighted place that will have your face seen. So if your crap in the face you may only get the movie dates because its gonna be dark the entire time, think about that one ya’ll. But when a girl has sexy eyes it’s always a turn-on because we can’t help from staring at them. A nice smile is good because you have to have good teeth and if they look like a railroad track, you better hit the road. Lastly, we definitely take a quick peak at your feet because that can definitely turn a man completely off. Listen, if the girl is choosing to wear open toe sandals, PLEASE have your toe-nails done and cute feet; so if you got six toes, ugly feet, or if you ain’t got a pedicure, DON’T wear them because a nigga will clown you for that. Also, if you get all dressed up, don’t wear some busted kicks that look like you was playing soccer and kicking rocks in them because all a nigga gonna tell you to do is to keep kicking those damn rocks…unless you got a fatty because that cures all wounds..LOL..

Saturday, January 10, 2009


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