Friday, March 6, 2009

PhOnE tAlK

Talking on the phone is one of the best ways to get to know someone better; but the question is:  Do you REALLY want to be on the phone 5-6 hours a night? Or do guys only do it because that’s what the girl wants to do?  How important is a phone conversation?

Of course, you want to be able to hold a conversation with the person that your talking to; but DAMN, sometimes a nigga don’t feel like talking or is not in the mood, but to satisfy the girl we will most definitely talk to her.  The problem is that some girls really know how to run their mouth and keep talking and talking and the crazy thing is “sometimes” not all the times, a nigga really doesn’t care.  There are a few questions that are guaranteed to be asked, like: “ How was your day”, “How was work/class”, or “What’s bothering if it seems like your not being yourself”.  Don’t get me wrong, we do care, but sometimes we don’t want the whole entire, drawn out version, but asking is the right thing to do.  Don’t get me wrong, I love to talk on the phone to a girl I’m interested in and I have been subject to the late night talks till 4 or 5 in the morning, but damn a nigga don’t want to do it every night because it can get hold very quick.  As you know (I ALWAYS KEEP IT REAL), but a part of the game is not to be the first one to get sleepy; lol; so a nigga is always gonna be like “naw, I ain’t sleepy, I’m good.”  Knowing damn well a nigga is ready to knock out, but we gonna front anyways, lol.

I think the whole talking on the phone situation is indeed essential to how far your relationship with the person can/will go.  Face it; we all need someone that can hold both a good conversation and an intelligent conversation.  If the person is boring to talk to, you might not really be able to relate to them all that well, so finding that counterpart who you can talk to is very important.   I know that we all have gone through this, but it’s NOTHING WORST than that “AWKWARD or DEAD SILENCE” on the phone, lol.  You know what I’m talking about, when neither person is talking and your just thinking in your head, DAMNIT, this conversation is CRAP.  You thinking to yourself, they ain’t got nothing else to say, this AWKARD/DEAD SILENCE needs to be broken immediately because if it last for more than 5 seconds, most likely ya’ll are going to hang up.

So let me know how important PhOnE TaLk is to you when getting to know someone you ate interested in.

UP…UP..and AWAY…signing up…LuTv…



  1. I think phone talk is one of the most important things. Because it's like it enhances the relationship in a way. It should be a better outlet then talking face to face because then your not going to be so shy.

    It's just easy to do. If there is a silence within the first 5-10 minutes your talking, and neither of you are talking or laughing, then it's a wrap. Might have to rethink everything.

  2. Do you REALLY want to be on the phone 5-6 hours a night? I do it with my female friends, my bestfriend && i use to do it all the time before we had our college career. My cousin and I do it every chance we get. But if I'm speaking with a male I don't mind it at all, but I actually want to be speaking of things.

    Or do guys only do it because that’s what the girl wants to do? Males do it because that's what the females wants. Well for almost every male I have wanted to talk to, they're just there. I can only recall one guy I was actually talking to that had me on the phone for 4 - 5 hrs three nights a week, if not every night . Then three males that are my friends, we`d spend hrs on the phone too.

    How important is a phone conversation? It is important, to me atleast. But the voice on the other may think it isn't important. Which sucks totally ass because then your the only one pumping sht up and making it more than what it is. But that shouldn't actually shut you do, though it often does, because he can just be a face to face person rather than a phone operator . If I can speak to a guy, that I like and he likes me back, on the phone more than once for hours it would make me content.


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