Talking on the phone is one of the best ways to get to know someone better; but the question is: Do you REALLY want to be on the phone 5-6 hours a night? Or do guys only do it because that’s what the girl wants to do? How important is a phone conversation?
Of course, you want to be able to hold a conversation with the person that your talking to; but DAMN, sometimes a nigga don’t feel like talking or is not in the mood, but to satisfy the girl we will most definitely talk to her. The problem is that some girls really know how to run their mouth and keep talking and talking and the crazy thing is “sometimes” not all the times, a nigga really doesn’t care. There are a few questions that are guaranteed to be asked, like: “ How was your day”, “How was work/class”, or “What’s bothering if it seems like your not being yourself”. Don’t get me wrong, we do care, but sometimes we don’t want the whole entire, drawn out version, but asking is the right thing to do. Don’t get me wrong, I love to talk on the phone to a girl I’m interested in and I have been subject to the late night talks till 4 or 5 in the morning, but damn a nigga don’t want to do it every night because it can get hold very quick. As you know (I ALWAYS KEEP IT REAL), but a part of the game is not to be the first one to get sleepy; lol; so a nigga is always gonna be like “naw, I ain’t sleepy, I’m good.” Knowing damn well a nigga is ready to knock out, but we gonna front anyways, lol.
I think the whole talking on the phone situation is indeed essential to how far your relationship with the person can/will go. Face it; we all need someone that can hold both a good conversation and an intelligent conversation. If the person is boring to talk to, you might not really be able to relate to them all that well, so finding that counterpart who you can talk to is very important. I know that we all have gone through this, but it’s NOTHING WORST than that “AWKWARD or DEAD SILENCE” on the phone, lol. You know what I’m talking about, when neither person is talking and your just thinking in your head, DAMNIT, this conversation is CRAP. You thinking to yourself, they ain’t got nothing else to say, this AWKARD/DEAD SILENCE needs to be broken immediately because if it last for more than 5 seconds, most likely ya’ll are going to hang up.
So let me know how important PhOnE TaLk is to you when getting to know someone you ate interested in.
UP…UP..and AWAY…signing up…LuTv…