FIRST Sight

What are the first two things you look at when you see the opposite sex? Why do you look at that those specific features and what does it mean to you? Are you shallow or wrong for having your preferences in the opposite sex? As I was talking to some of the women that I consider friends in my life, I asked them this question because I was curious to see what their answers were. The answers that I got were: Face, Arms, feet (sneaker apparel), hands, smile, and swag. My interpretation of these answers goes as the following: Women look at our arms because it gives them a sense of our overall built of our body; Our face because I guess they want us to be cute; I guess if we keep our kicks clean, it means that we stay fresh ; I think women look at our hands because that’s what were gonna use to touch their bodies with before we getting the stroking. I think women look at our smile because it number one lets them see our teeth and number two may make them feel comfortable with us. Lastly but not least, I think they pay attention to our swag because face it; no girl wants a WACK ass nigga. These are just my interpretations of what these answers I was given meant.

So what if your a laid back guy kinda like myself who wears sweats and hoodies and some regular throw around kicks most of the time; that means you already failed some of the criteria. In addition to that, each girl has her own definition of cute so I guess that’s another criteria thrown up in the air i guess...

Now I know you ain’t think I was just gonna let that rock without giving ya’ll the man’s side of what we look at when we see a female, because hey, after all it’s “A REAL MAN’S WORLD”. So when we see a female walking by, the things that us MEN look at include: The ass, face, titties, and feet. Let’s face it, what man doesn’t want a girl that got a fatty or at least some type of cushion back there, it just makes the sex that much more better when you hitting from the back. The titties usually depend on whether he is a breast man or not; but it ain’t nothing wrong with sucking on some titties during foreplay or even just because you may be bored. Another fun thing to do with the titties is to motor boat them, for those who know what that is, for those who don’t it’s when you put your face between the titties and move rapidly from side to side. Don’t worry the face is also important, but it isn’t something mandatory to look at when we fucking. Don’t get me wrong though, the face is essential if you EVER have a chance of being wifey because guys need a girl that they can take out in public and not be embarrassed or take to a lighted place that will have your face seen. So if your crap in the face you may only get the movie dates because its gonna be dark the entire time, think about that one ya’ll. But when a girl has sexy eyes it’s always a turn-on because we can’t help from staring at them. A nice smile is good because you have to have good teeth and if they look like a railroad track, you better hit the road. Lastly, we definitely take a quick peak at your feet because that can definitely turn a man completely off. Listen, if the girl is choosing to wear open toe sandals, PLEASE have your toe-nails done and cute feet; so if you got six toes, ugly feet, or if you ain’t got a pedicure, DON’T wear them because a nigga will clown you for that. Also, if you get all dressed up, don’t wear some busted kicks that look like you was playing soccer and kicking rocks in them because all a nigga gonna tell you to do is to keep kicking those damn rocks…unless you got a fatty because that cures all wounds..LOL..